One of my favorite assignments in high school was to make a list of things to ask your future spouse before making any kind of commitment, kind of a collection of things you absolutely flat-out required and a way of figuring out whether your ideas about marriage, childrearing, future expectations, behavior, and responses would match. I've kept mine for years, since it got me thinking about the practicalities.
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Date: 2006-06-12 07:09 pm (UTC)From:Things like that are so important!